Introduction:
Commitment to an individual or cause requires long term dedication and emotional investment. While it is natural to commit to a marriage, a job or any other cause, some individuals have a deep fear of commitment. Individuals who go through this commitment fear are unable to function optimally in the social fabric around them.
Fear of commitment to a marriage is called gamophobia. People suffering from gamophobia are so fearful of commitment that it is almost impossible for them to be in any romantic relationship for a long period of time.
Signs and Symptoms:
A few signs for you to understand that someone has commitment issues:
- Feels uncomfortable when there is a discussion around long term goals
- No conversations occur around the future of relationship
- Most conversations are superficial and not at a deeper level
- Lack of emotional attachment
- Delayed or no response to calls/texts for a long period of time
Causes:
Commitment issues generally originate from a relationship related traumatic event or early childhood stress.
Some of the causes are:
- Witnessing parents divorce during childhood
- Attachment issues as a child
- Fear of getting rejected in a relationship, so this person proactively steps out of the relationship
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